Top Rabbit Vibrators Reviews and Comparisons

By jen | Sex Toys

Choosing the right sex toy can seem like a daunting task.  There are so many options that even a vetern might get overwhelmed.  

There is no perfect sex toy for everyone.  But, we think a lot of women will agree with us that you will probably find the right one for you among all the different varieties of Rabbit Vibrators available.  

We women live in a fabulous time where the technology to give us pleasure grows every year!  No longer do we have to rely on buying a muscle massager at Spencer Gifts at the mall, or just settle for jamming ourselves with a lifeless dildo.

And no longer do we have to choose between a toy that offers vaginal or clitoral stimulation.  

Rabbit Vibrators offer both, and with the wide variety available you should be able to find the perfect one for you. It doesn’t matter if you prefer hitting your G-Spot, or want more attention to your clitoris (or both with all that wonderful power!), there is a Rabbit Vibrator for you.

Have fun choosing one, feel free to research them, and even try a few different ones out.  Buying your sex toys should be almost as much fun as using them! (Ok, we know it won’t be as much fun as playing with your favorite toy, but you should still enjoy it!)

Fifty Shades of Grey Greedy Girl Rechargeable G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator

It’s OK to be a greedy greedy girl when it comes to pleasuring yourself!  

With 36 (yes 36!) vibration patterns to choose from an flexible ears to hit all of your spots for amazing orgasms, this is one of our absolute favorites.

It’s super quiet as a whisper, so you won’t have to worry about the family or roommates hearing the toy operating (although they might hear you when you experience all the pleasure this sleek and powerful vibrator gives).  

It runs for about an hour on a single USB charge, and comes with a satin storage bag to easily store in your night stand in between uses.

Conclusion for the Greedy Girl Rabbit Vibrator

Pros: Powerful with a lot of interesting combinations, short recharging time (2 hours), affordable, waterproof

Cons: It’s not the easiest to control, buttons are in weird places and it can be difficult to turn off

Happy Rabbit 2

With 3 different rotating speeds, 9 choices in patterns for the shaft and 3 options in speeds for the rabbit ears this little pleaser has even more choices than the Greedy Girl.

It might not be as powerful as the Greedy Girl, but this is a great go-to toy when you need to get the job done!  

It has two motors that hit the spot with it’s clitoral and penetrative stimulation. And one a single charge you will have up to 2 hours of time to play with your Happy Rabbit!

The shaft is smaller, but it’s also very quiet, so you won’t have to worry about other people hearing your toy.

Also, because of its size, this Rabbit is compact and easy enough to travel with. It also comes with a travel lock, so you won’t have to worry about it accidentally turning itself on in any embarrassing situations.

The shaft is made of a firm material that still feels soft, so no need to worry about that unrealistic hard ‘plastic’ feel. 

Conclusion for the Happy Rabbit 2

Pros: Quiet, long use time, flexible, lots of variety in speeds, reasonable price

Cons: Longer charging time (but you get more playtime with it), your partner might get a bit jealous.

Fun Factory's Amorino Rabbit Vibrator

The Amorino is an entry-level, high-end toy.

It features a premium soft silicone, 6 vibration intensities in addition to 6 different rhythmical patterns.

These vibrations are pretty decent and quite strong for such a small Rabbit toy, however if you are a power queen you might want to look into some of our other recommendations.

Fun Factory's Amorino is also entirely submersible in water, so it is ideal to play with in a bath or jacuzzi.

Also, being on the small side, it is perfect for novices, smaller sized females and women who simply need something small to hit their g-spots without a larger toy.

The added rubber band resounds with the vibrations of the Amorino to stimulate the labia as well. While this may sound like an excellent idea not a great many people have actually found the band to provide any extra pleasure, and some people report it just getting in the way.  So feel free to remove it if it doesn’t work for you, it won't effect the way the rest of the toy works.

The Amorino also includes a great 1-year guarantee, so used it as hard as you desire!

Conclusion for the Amorino by Fun Factory

Pros:  High quality.  Great for use in the bathtub.  Very Good Warranty.

Cons: Might not be powerful enough for some women.

Blush Novelties Hop Trix and Jessica Rabbit Vibrators

Blush Novelties is gradually becoming one of our preferred lower cost makers of Rabbit Vibrators. They normally have some of the best prices you will find for body-safe, good quality toys.

There are two models that we would recommend.  The first is the Hop Trix and the second is the Jessica Rabbit.  You will find a strong level of vibrations but you won’t have to pay as much as for some of the more expensive brands.  

They are both rechargeable and come with a USB charger, so you can easily charge it up for your laptop or computer.  This seems to be a feature that for some reason is only normally found in higher priced toys.

And while the shaft of these toys might offer plenty of power and rumbles, the clitoral arms are much weaker than a lot of the other toys listed here.

So if you definitely need rumbles for a clitoral orgasm, then the Hop line by Blush may leave you disappointed.

The difference between the two models is size.  The Hop Trix is the slimmer and longer version, while the Jessica Rabbit isn’t as long, but does have more girth.  Depending on your own preferences you will know which you will like better!

Both have 7 different functions to have fun with and they are also a 100% water resistant, so relaxing the bath with some bubbles and a nice glass of wine can this toy can be the perfect companion for a relaxing evening!

Conclusion for the Blush Novelties Rabbit Toys

Pros: Excellent price.  Great bang for your buck!  USB charger.

Cons: Clit vibrator might not be enough for some women.  For the price though it feels like we are nit picking.

Lelo's Soraya

Lelo’s toys look almost as good as they feel, and the Soraya is no exception!

The Lelo Soraya offers 8 modes, the charge lasts up to 4 hours, and a nice girth with 5 inches of penetrative depth, this toy can give you exquisite sensations inside and out. 

It has all the qualities of the Ina 2 (Rechargeable, bath friendly, strong deep personalized functions, 10-year service warranty and ultra soft silicone body) however with a different shape that we have found we prefer.  Although, there is something about the motion of the Ina Wave that we are torn between the shape of the Soraya and the motion of the Wave. 

If you are like us and prefer deeper penetration that the Soraya is for you.  If you would like to have less depth, the Ina 2 is an excellent choice with its increased curve which can be great for some women.

The other big distinction in between the Ina 2 and the Soraya is the clitoral arm. Instead of securing down on you, this one sticks right out and is really flexible.  We really liked this, although it takes a bit of practice to get used to, once you do it's nice to have control of your stimulation.

All these functions make the Soraya an ideal Rabbit vibrator for a woman who likes a bit more control over her stimulation.

The only genuine problem, specifically when compared to the Ina Wave, is the non-seamless body.

A joint where the metal part fulfills the silicone requires you to offer a little extra attention during clean up. Compared to the old rinse, spray, set and forget mindset you can have with the Ina Wave, this is a bit of a downer.

Conclusion for the Ina Soraya

Pros: Great high end toy for women who like to have a little more hands on approach.  Nice size and shape.  2 Hour's of playtime from a single charge.

Cons: Can be on the pricey side for some people.  A little more difficult to clean than some other options. 

Lelo Ina Wave Luxury Rechargeable 10 Function Purple Rabbit Vibrator

 Since we talked about the Ina Wave in the last part, let’s look at that one, too! 

You don’t know what you are missing until you have experienced the ‘come hither’ wave of Lelo’s Ina on your g-spot.  

With 5 insertable inches and a 4.5 inch circumference, along with a massive variety of patterns and speeds this is a luxury toy that will do all the work for you!  And it’s so quiet you can use this in very discreet situations.

You also get 2 hours of use from this toy from just one hour charging.

Some people complain that it can be difficult with all the pattern options to find the exact one they liked, and then find it again if they go exploring, and that is one of the few drawbacks of this Rabbit Vibrator.  The toy does though remember the last setting you used, so if you were on a favorite it will be right there for you the next time you have that itch!

Conclusion of the Ina Wave

 Pros: Unique motion, and great power.  High quality product. Excellent warranty and good charge time.

Cons: It is more of an investment, more for an experienced Rabbit user than a first time toy.

Desire Luxury Rechargeable Strapless Strap-On Dildo Vibrator

Lovehoney’s Desires Luxury Strapless Strapless Strap-on Rabbit Vibrator is perfect for couples.  

It’s double ended for shared fun, and with rabbit ears for clitoral stimulation.  If you want, you can use this as a strap-on with a 1.5 inch O-Ring for extra stability.  For the wearer there is 4.5 inches of insertable with 4.75 inch circumference, and on the other end is 5 inches to penetrate your lover with and a 4.25 inch circumference.

Unlike some similar toys, the vibrations on this Rabbit Vibrator are strong on both ends, and with 8 different patterns and 12 speeds there can be a lot of room for variety for both of you!

Unlike some of the other Rabbit toys we’ve reviewed, this one only has an hour of playtime and it takes a 2 hours to charge, using a USB cable.  This isn’t a deal breaker, but it’s something to keep in mind.  

The biggest drawbacks are the controls are difficult to get used to, and can be pretty awkward to get to while you are using the toy with someone.  A strapless Rabbit Vibrator would be better used with a remote control, but once you get used to the controls things do run fairly smoothly.  

The dildo portion is also a little on the ‘hard’ side.  I had no problems with this and the toy is somewhat pliable in being able to angle for your body, but doing some research there are people who the toy didn’t quite fit right for, and the rigidity didn’t give much room to fix the problem.

Conclusion for the Desire Luxury Strapless Strap-On Vibrator

Pros: A lot of fun for couples, especially those new to strap-on/pegging play. A nice variety of speeds and patterns.

Cons: On the low end of play time per charge. Not as pliable as some other toys to fit all body types. Couples experienced in pegging may find the toy isn’t big enough.

Jopen Leia Rechargeable Dual Rabbit Vibrator

With a glass loop handle and a soft velvet like silicon covering, this Rabbit toy falls into the category of some of the Lelo’s for looking more like a piece of art than a sex toy.

With 5 insertable inches and four and a half inch circumference, this is a good sized toy that delivers a lot of great G-Spot rumbles through 7 different patterns and multiple speeds.

And did I mention it’s fully waterproof? This is a great toy for when you want to spend a little bit longer in the shower or are having a nice relaxing me-time in the bathtub.  The loop handle works great for shower play 😉

Jopen’s Leia also has a very long charge (4 Hours!), so you can get a lot of play time out of it, or just keep it near your shower and have it at hand when you need it without having to worry about it having lost its charge!

Conclusion for the Jopen Leia Rechargeable Dual Rabbit Vibrator

Pros: Very comfortable to hold and use in the shower.  Very long charge.

Cons: It’s not the best for discreet play, the dual motors are a little loud, so people might know what you are up to!

Lovehoney Beginner's Silicone Rabbit Vibrator

Good Beginners Rabbit Vibrator

Maybe you are curious about trying out a Rabbit Vibrator but don’t want to spend a hundred dollars on something you aren’t quite sure about yet?

Lovehoney’s beginners Silicone model is a great place to start.  Unlike buying some similarly priced ones over on Amazon that are made of questionable materials, this  hypoallergenic silicone has great smooth soft feel.  And with 5.25 circumference and 4.5 inches, it’s one of the thicker dildos that we have covered in this article.

It also has quite a bit of rumbling power.  It has the kind of power you expect from a much more expensive toy.

Yes there are only 10 different patterns to choose from, and there isn’t as much customization as more expensive Rabbit toys, but if you are just starting out with one we think this will have plenty for you to play with.

The controls are very basic and easy to use, so that reduces some of the awkwardness people complain about with some models.  The one big draw back is that it’s a traditional toy, in that it takes batteries, so you can’t just recharge your toy in between uses.

Conclusion for Lovehoney's Beginner Rabbit Vibrator

Pros: Inexpensive, but still with quite a bit of power.  High Quality materials you don't normally find at this price.

Cons: Not rechargeable, might not be enough variety for ‘pattern queens’.  

We-Vibe Nova Rechargeable App Controlled G-Spot Rabbit Vibrator

If you are looking for a toy that a partner can control while they are away from you, this will hit the spot for you!

Besides the app aspect, what makes this Rabbit Vibrator great is that the ‘ears’ (which don’t look at all like ears on this one) flex with the movements you make to give consistent stimulation to your clit if you are using the toy to thrust.  

The insertable length is 5 inches with a 4.25 circumference, making it a good length and a bit thinner than some options you have here. There are 10 different patterns and you can adjust the speed for each of them to give yourself a variety of intensities.  It is also very quiet, for good discreet fun! And it will give you two hours of playtime off of a fairly fast 90 minute charge.

And of course there is the app, your partner with a smartphone can control the intensity of this toy from anywhere in the world, making for some long distance fun!

Conclusion for the We-Vibe Nova Rechargeable Rabbit Vibrator

Pros: Great consistent clitoral stimulation, very flexible, good length of charge. A lot of fun for long distance couples.

Cons: Might be a little on the expensive, especially if you aren't going to use the app.  Some people report that the app can have some difficulty staying connected.


While we think we put a lot of research and testing into coming up with our selection, this isn't a definitive guide.  We will be adding to it as we try more Rabbit Toys and as new ones are released.  

Do you have a favorite that we are missing?  Let us know!  

A Beginners Guide To Anal Sex For Women

By jen | Women

Anal sex is certainly among the more difficult ways to be with your partner, there is more possibility for something to go wrong as well as some possible humiliation you might feel when it does. 

You might also be worried about how painful anal sex can be.  

With the right preparation though you can get rid of your worries and find out for yourself if anal sex is something you and your partner will enjoy.

Preparing to Have Anal Sex For the First Time

Discover Yourself First

The rectum is tight and having a full-size erect penis inserted into it can be a rather, um, intense experience.

Unlike the vaginal canal which expands as you get excited, your booty's going to stay the same size.  It doesn’t grow wider when aroused to accommodate your partners penis comfortably.

But, you can get used to the feeling with a bit of practice. 

Play by yourself and explore your ass prior to making the decision to have anal sex with a partner.

You can start by using a finger with some high quality water based lube.  Feeling around your ass and inserting a finger or two will let you gauge what it will feel like and get you used to the sensation.   

You can then move up to  a butt plug or other toy to see how stimulation really feels. The more you play, the more you will know if you like it.  You will also learn what sort of stimulation you enjoy more than others, so you will be able to confidently communicate to your lover what you like and don’t like -- increasing the pleasure of the experience for both of you!

Eat Properly Before Having Fun With Your Booty

If you recognize that there are specific foods that disturb your belly, these are precisely what you need to stay clear of for a day or two ahead of time. Keeping your body and also tummy pleased will help the remainder of the prep to go much smoother.  

Eating well before hand will help put your mind at ease and give you less to worry about while you prepare to have anal sex and are engaged in it.

Getting Clean Before The Deed

Remember poop isn’t stored in your rectum. It simply travels through on it’s way out of your body. So, as long as you go to the bathroom in advance, there should not be much to worry about any embarrassment about what might be on your partners penis when they pull out of you.

If you are concerned though using a douche or enema can help you out.  This isn’t essential, but psychologically it could be helpful if this something you are worrying about.  The more your mind is at ease the easier and better the sex will be! However bear in mind that it is not a vital part of the prepping process.

A good idea prior to exploring yourself, or having anal sex with a partner would be to shower well.  Cleaning your ass thoroughly on the outside is a good idea, and as preparation you use a mild soap on your fingers to insert into your booty while taking a shower to make sure you are clean and get used to the feeling of having something in your rectum.

Get Your Bed (or anywhere else) Ready For Play

Set up the location in whichever means is going to make you really feel most comfortable and loosened up. And also by all means, put down a towel if you intend to! This will certainly additionally aid with the lube circumstance because as I will tell you, you are most likely to require a great deal of it.

Lube, Lube and More Lube

You are going to want a good amount of lube, and you are going to want it on anything that is going to be inserted into your ass.

Put lube in and around your butt hole, the penis and any fingers or toys that you might be using as foreplay. 

Unlike the glorious vagina, your ass isn’t self-lubricating. No matter how excited you get, it's not going to lube itself and you will have a better experience if you use a lubricating substance to make it more pleasurable and safer. 

You can easily tear something if anything is inserted to quickly, with too much force and without proper lubrication. 

You don’t want this to hurt or cause you injury!

Make sure you lube up the opening of the anus and also the inside of it with a finger or a lubricant launcher to make sure everything is covered all the way up.  

Also, don’t forget to lube the penis, too!  I know I mentioned it already, but it's worth the reminder!

Use a Condom

Even if you have both been checked for sexually transmitted diseases, and have a clean bill of health, you might still want to use a condom. 

Some people find it to be more pleasurable having the slicker surface a lubricated condom when they first try anal sex. 

It can also put your mind at ease that you aren’t going to be leaving anything on your partners penis. Not that this is should be a concern if you’ve followed the guide up until now, but anything that can help put you in the right state of mind is going to make the experience better!

Foreplay!  Don’t Just Stick It Right In

Make sure you are aroused first.  You know your body best, and will know what relaxes you and makes you feel good.  Use lots of foreplay to help loosen up your sphincter muscle before beginning your anal play.  

The outside of your anal opening also has a lot of nerve endings, stimulating these through light touches and teasing will also help you prepare to have anal sex for the first time.  The more sexual arousal you feel, the more of the ‘love hormone’ oxytocin is released. Oxytocin is a natural pain reliever and will help relax your body. All of these are good things when you are going to try anal sex for the first time.

Don't Be in a Hurry, There is No Reward for Quickness

Take is slow!  Allow your body to get used to the new sensations. Have your partner ease in a little to allow your muscles get used to the sensation. If there is any pain you are probably going to tighten up, that’s natural!  Just take it slow and very soon you will both be enjoying yourselves.

Relax and Push

Relaxing comes up a lot doesn’t it?

If you are feeling tense about having anal sex it’s probably doing to hurt more than it should. 

One way to help you relax your rectum muscles is to push out, similar to if you were using the toilet while he is slowly pushing his penis in.  I know this sounds weird, but this will help you open up.  And don’t worry you aren’t going to do anything embarrassing when you do this if you have properly prepared up until this point!

Talk to Each Other

Don’t assume that your partner is going to know if you are enjoying yourself or not. 

A painful moan in the heat of the moment might be interpreted as pleasure to your partner.  Let them know what is or isn’t working. This is a new experience for you as a couple and it’s going to take some time to learn what you both find pleasurable or not.  

Lube, Lube, and More Lube Redux

Reapply lube when you need it. Remember, no matter how excited you are to be having anal sex your rectum isn’t going to start lubricating itself.  If things are starting to feel a little dry or uncomfortable use more lube.  

Don't ‘Double Dip’

Any movies you might have seen on the internet withstanding, after the penis is in your butt, don’t then put it in your vagina (and to be on the safe side vice versa).  There are bacteria unique to each part of your body, and mixing them up can create problems like UTI’s or yeast infections.  

Have him wash up his penis when you are looking to switch the style of sex you are having.  Or if you are using condoms, change the condom for a new one.  

Better safe than have an unpleasant surprise down the road!

Persistence Pays When It Comes To Enjoy Anal Sex

Be patient!  

Anal sex can be fun, but it can take more work to be thoroughly enjoyable. You will want to be comfortable both physically and psychologically about having anal sex if you are going to completely find pleasure in it.  So take your time and move at a pace that is comfortable for you.

If things are painful at first, talk to your partner about what could be done differently.  Maybe more lube is the answer, or maybe you need to be more aroused and relaxed. Don’t do anything you feel uncomfortable with, but also don’t give up too soon!

With the right preparation and communication with your partner you will soon find that you will find pleasure from all new nerve endings in your body that you may not have previously had stimulated, and this can lead to an even greater level of intimacy between you and your partner.

How To Clean Your Sex Toys

By jen | Sex Toys

Taking a little time out for your own ‘self-love’ can get a little messy, and it’s important to make sure you clean your toys properly after each and every use.

​Knowing how to wash your toys is crucial to stay healthy, clear of inflammations and to keep your precious toys working well for many orgasms to come. Even though they know it’s important, most people have no idea how to properly clean their toys.

First of all you should never scrub your toys with rags or brushes.  Think if it’s good though to do your dishes in, it’s not good enough for your toys!

Rather, wash your hands and then use them to clean your toys.  Anything more abrasive should start to have adverse effects on the materials your toys are made of, and reduce their lifespan.  

While that is a good general rule of thumb, different toys are going to have different cleaning requirements.  Read on to find out some general guidelines and more specific suggestions for different types of toys and devices.

Cleaning Silicone, Glass & Stainless Steel Adult Toys

The great non-porous trio. They are the perfect toys not only for their safe composition and ability to keep a pleasant temperature during use, but also for their ease at being able to be cleaned up when you are done.  

But keep in mind not all metal toys could be made of stainless steel, and not all plastic toys could be made from medical grade silicon.  Higher quality toys will usually be, but it’s good to know exactly what you are cleaning before you start cleaning, and probably even when you were buying the toy so you aren’t buying a product made from inferior materials that might have unwanted effects.

For basic, non-motorized toys, cleaning up can be as simple as putting them into your dishwasher and running the dishwasher on sanitize (to avoid any awkward situations, it might be best to make sure you also take them out when the dishwasher is done and not leave your toys for someone else to find)

If you don’t have a dishwasher that can sanitize, you can achieve a similar result by putting your toys in boiling water for about 10 minutes. This will remove any unwanted bacteria that might have collected on the toy during your play time.

Sanitizing might seem a little extreme, but if you are using a toy that is going to go into different places, either on yourself or between you and a partner, it’s a good idea to ​clean them well in this way so you don’t cause any unwanted problems like yeast infections or UTIs.  

If you’re not sharing the toy and don’t need to sanitize it, cleaning it by hand with a mild scent free hand soap and rinsing it with warm water should be enough to keep your toy clean and in good working order.

And for the toys with motors, we highly suggest simply hand cleaning the toy with some mild scent free hand soap and then rinsing it with warm water.  After that you can apply a conventional antibacterial sex toy cleaner. After it applied, let it sit for 3 to 5 minutes on a clean surface, like a towel.

Just make sure that you know if you’re toy is waterproof before submerging anything with a motor in water.  If it isn’t, then be much more conservative with the water you are using, but getting it a bit wet isn’t going to ruin your toy.

If you plan on sharing your vibrating toys between you and your partner or your own orifices, using a 10% bleach water solution or rubbing alcohol after you have cleaned it with hand soap will make your toy clean enough that you don’t have to worry about unwanted bacteria being passed between orifices.  

Cleaning Jelly, Hard Plastic, Skin Imitations, and Other Materials

These might not be the highest quality toys available, but some people prefer them to silicon.  Also if you aren’t looking to spend a lot on your sex toys, these options are more affordable and can still give you a lot of pleasure.

While these toys are more inexpensive, you need to be even more careful when cleaning them or they could be a hazard to your health.  The porous materials they are made of, can absorb the bacteria, and make it harder to actually get clean.  

We would recommend getting something much safer and easier to clean as quickly as you can afford it.  If you are unsure where to start, we have a number of guides that can help you buy safe, effective and fun toys!

Toys made of these materials should never be shared!

These toys are difficult to totally sterilize due to their porous nature so you might put yourself or someone else at risk.

Using latex prophylactics isn’t a good idea either because many of these materials have oils that break down the condom, and being the equivalent of using petroleum jelly as lube while wearing a condom.  The condom is not going to be able to do its job properly!

The only condoms that are going to work are polyurethane or nitrile condoms.  Do you want to buy special condoms just for your toys? We think it might be better to spend the extra money on a higher quality toy to begin with.

Otherwise, clean up still ought to be a breeze with the aid of an excellent sex toy cleaner.

To prevent any problems you should get a high quality sex toy cleaner, and always use that when cleaning toys made from these plastics.  We err on the side of keeping our genitals as healthy as possible, and we think you should, too.  

You’ll want to wash the toy with some unscented hand soap.  Rinse the toy off in warm water and then spray the cleaner on it and then let it sit for a few minutes to be thoroughly clean.

Handling Odor

Even body safe materials can still retain an odor after use especially for today that are used anally.

If the toy is made of silicone, glass or stainless, and doesn’t contain a motor (or has one you can easily remove), then you can simply boil the toy in water with a small amount of vinegar in it and the odor should be removed.

If the toy has a vibrator that you can't get rid of, a bit of 100% acetone rubbed with a soft material like makeup cleaner pads should also get rid of any lingering smells your toy has.

For toys that are not body safe, I'm afraid that nothing can be done and you should actually begin thinking about switching over to something safer.

​Some Exceptions For Cleaning Your Toys

It’s possible to use some other techniques to safely clean your toys. While using high quality sex toy cleaners is what we recommend in most cases, you can still get away with other methods of cleaning your toys in particular instances.

Clitoral Toys

If you don't tend to use your toy for penetration, you can simply clean your toy with any non-alcohol based unscented soap for the skin. Just rinse thoroughly after you have used soap to avoid any accumulation of soap residue.

Anal toys

If you don't share your anal toys, they can quickly be cleaned up with warm water and antibacterial unscented soap.  If a toy you use anally is going in any other part of your or a partners body, you should really consider sanitizing it between uses.  


A masturbator that only you use can be cleaned with some hand soap and then giving it a rinse in warm water.

A great deal of them can be flipped over like a sock for much better cleansing and drying.

But make sure that you dry them thoroughly when you are done washing them, especially if you are going to store the sleeve for any length of time before using it again.  They are notorious for growing mold when they are left damp.

Best Toy Cleaner

Hands down, the quickest and most care-free way of cleaning your sex toys so that you can feel assured that they will be safe and have a long life is to use a high quality sex toy cleaner.

While most of them are made equal and the brand rarely matters (as long as they are anti-bacterial, unscented and do not leave residue), we still do have some recommendations.

Pjur Med Clean

​The Reason Pjur Med Clean is our leading choice due to the fact that, on top of doing its task very well and being discreet at that (no points out of sex or toys on the label ), it cleans up silicone lube effectively. Might it be on toys or spills, just spray the cleaner over a stain or a puddle and wash off normally!

Since we recommend silicon lube as the highest quality type you can get, but we also know that it can be the most difficult to clean up after using or if you spill it, Pjur’s works wonders.  Not only does it clean up your toys, but you can use it clean off any remaining lube on yourself, also. 

With the spray version just spray it on where you want to clean, let it sit for a little bit and then wipe it off. 

You can also get it as a wipe, which can make cleaning up even easier!

It does cost a slight bit more than most other brands of quality sex toy cleaners, but the ease that you can use it makes us think that the extra cost is a small price to pay.


Now you have no reason to have any dirty toys sitting around in your nightstand!  Cleaning your toys properly will keep them working well for years to come, and will keep you and your sexy bits healthy, too!

A Woman’s Guide to Choosing the Right Sex Toy

By jen | Sex Toys , Women

Sex toys can be an important part of overall sexual satisfaction and wellness in life.  But, there are so many different toys and options available that the adult toy world can be a complicated place to start browsing

For the average woman, it can be a little difficult to understand where to start.

But don’t worry our guide will help you get started and you will soon be confidently going about choosing exactly the right toy for you!

First off, we are passionate about woman buying safe non-toxic toys.  The quality of the materials matter and we will only be recommending body safe toys.  There might be inexpensive options available for some of them made of cheaper materials, but we believe the possible health dangers aren’t worth the little bit of savings.

Some people believe that using a condom on a cheaper product is a way to protect themselves from any possible harmful effects inferior materials cause to them.  This isn’t a good idea! First of all it’s going to cost you a lot more in the long run just buying condoms for your toys. More importantly though the oils found in those toys are destructive to condoms, and cause them to be ineffective.

Unless we link to a specific item on Amazon, we don’t recommend using Amazon for buying your sex toys.  Amazon is great for a lot of things, but for adult toys there are a lot of inexpensive fake versions of toys, and misguided information about the quality of the toys being sold.  If we do recommend something from Amazon, you can trust us that we have done research into knowing that the toy we are recommending is being sold by both a trusted company and a trusted seller.

Also, make sure to educate yourself about what lubes work best for different toys and if there are any cleaners recommended for what you use to bring yourself pleasure.  We want you and your toys to be healthy for a long time!

With all of those things out of the way, keep reading to learn more about choosing some toys to bring much more pleasure into your life!

Best Sex Toys for Beginners

If you are new to using sex toys you might be asking:

"I never ever tried sex toys before, how can I understand what'll work for me?"

This is a great question to ask, but it’s not something you should worry about.  With the right information you will have a great idea of what will work for you!

Not knowing where to start causes a lot of women to aimlessly purchase a number of toys, never sure if what they are buying is what they are really looking for. 

While this method can possibly lead to a serendipity discovery of unexpected pleasure, it can also end up being quite expensive as you buy toy after toy that doesn’t quite hit that right spot for you, and who knows what kind of quality you will be buying while going this route.

Unfortunatetly, this will cause some women to even be turned off on the idea of sex toys, which is a shame that they are depriving themselves of some great orgasms just because they have bought the wrong products in the past!

The best place to start when deciding on your first (or any) sex toy is from your own experience with masturbation and sex.

Be honest, no one is judging you!

What is your go-to way of enjoying yourself when you are masturbating or with a partner?

Do you focus mostly on your clitoris? 

Do you enjoy penetration? Or is it something you find an uncomfortable but necessary part of having sex? 

If you’re into men do you like them to be on the squishy side?  Very Hard? Do you have a preferred size and width

Do you like penetration, but prefer a more hands on approach when it comes to your clitoris? 


Is it best for you when you get have maximum stimulation to your g-spot and clit at the same time?

Be honest with yourself, and what your best experiences have been.  It’s all about what you and your body find pleasurable and everyone can be different!

All these questions ought to lead you towards a much better understanding of what you may be looking for in regards to functions, size, and feel.

If you are having trouble answering these questions don’t feel ashamed or embarrassed.  Lots of women haven’t discovered what exactly works best for them yet. Maybe you haven’t had a lot of positive experiences with sex or masturbation in the past.  That’s ok! It’s time to start discovering the wonderful pleasures that you can have.

That is why you are here anyway!

In this case, you might want to consider a toy that is versatile enough to offer you an idea of what you might like without breaking costing a lot. 

There is nothing worse than paying hundreds of dollars for a toy that you end up using once and then never using again.

Vibrating Bullets - A Good Toy For Beginners

For complete beginners, what we generally suggest is a decent cheap vibrating bullet like the Vooom.  These are perfect if you are like most women who require some clitoral stimulation to have an orgasm.

Basic bullet vibrators don’t cost very much.  No matter what your experience level with sex toys, they will do their job very well, but for the beginner they are not intimidating at all. 

They are small and discreet, and can be fun to play with while you are alone or with a partner for added stimulation during sex.

The Vooom has what we consider to be an average amount of power.  If it’s not quite right for you, you should have a good idea if you are looking for less vibration or more.  If it leaves you wanting for more power, something like the Tango will probably work much better for you.

G-Spot Toys - Learning What You Like In A Sex Toy

Another fantastic alternative, for those who are a little more courageous or have a bit more cash to invest, is a quality vibrating G-spot toy.  The cute little curved Gigi 2 is a good place to start, or the slightly more expensive but more effective Sola Cue is what we would recommend.

Because they all vibrate, you'll be able to utilize them externally like a mini-wand.

This will let you experiment and discover if you enjoy external as well as internal vibrations all at once.  And if you do not, you can shut off the vibrations and use them like any other G-spot toy.

We recommend the Sola Cue for someone who has no idea where to get started.  The versatility of the toy will allow you to discover what you like most, and if you are still looking for more excitement you will really know what to look for that meets your requirements better for your next toy!

Best Sex Toys For External Use

Not all sex toys are made for penetration.  And not all women are looking for toys that they have to thrust into themselves.

While these toys are generally created for the clitoris, you might also find them pleasurable to use on your nipples, or on the sensitive nerve endings around your butt.

But if you do choose to use them around your back door, make sure you clean them completely prior to getting them anywhere near your lady bits again.

Bullet Vibes - Small In Size But Oh So Pleasurable

Bullet Vibes are very versatile, and, as discussed above, are typically terrific toys for starting out.

They can be utilized on their own or along with another toy for penetration.  Or while you are having sex to give more stimulation to your clitoris during love making.

The Tango by We-Vibe we consider the best around because it is powerful and delivers some of the best orgasms from a bullet vibe that we have found. 

However if you are more sensitive to vibrations, you might find more than the first couple of levels to be too much for you.  If this sounds like you, we would recommend the Vooom by Screaming-O.

If direct contact with the clitoris is uncomfortable to you, nothing stops you from using these vibes over clothing or near but not on the clit.  You can experiment with exactly where feels best for you!

But if you are definitely looking for something that vibrates around but not on the clitoris, a toy like JimmyJane's Form 2 would be perfect for you, since it doesn’t involve direct clitoral stimulation.

Wands - You Will Think They Are Magic When You Try Them

Wands are for females who are less into pinpoint stimulation and more about raw power.

So if a bullet vibe like the Tango isn't enough for you, a wand might be what you are looking for!

They're much bigger than a lot of other sex toys thanks to their larger motors.

The most popular choice is, of course, the Magic Wand, which seems to have become the go to name when anyone is talking about wands.  ALL WANDS AREN’T MAGIC WANDS.

They come in a variety of models, from the inexpensive classic version up to new rechargeable models that come with extra features.

You can also add to the Magic Wand with the accessories they offer, you can customize and virtually turn your magic wand into all kinds of sex toys through the options they have available. 

When it comes to versatility the Magic Wand has very few competitors.

If you live outside of North America, you may have to settle for one of the competitor wands, since Magic Wand seems to only make their products with cords that can be plugged in in North America.

Suction Toys - Increasing Your Sensitivity

Lastly, suction toys are a more recent addition to toys that focus on the clitoris.  In recent years they have been becoming more and more popular.

They use a gentle suction on the clitoris, to bring more blood in to it and making the clitoris more sensitive. When you mix the increased sensitivity from a suction device with the vibrations of another toy, the results can be earth shattering for some women!

Womanizer was the first suction toy to gain popularity.  Since then there have been lots of imitators, but we still recommend  the Womanizer as the best suction toy available. 

If you are looking for a suction toy, we recommend the Womanizer Classic, it’s very sleek looking, and does an amazing job at making the clitoris more sensitive.  It also has it’s own rumbling vibrations that are much quieter than previous models. This toy can be a lot of fun for women looking for direct stimulation to their clit.

Choosing a Sex Toy for Penetration

These sex toys meant for penetration and can be used for vaginal stimulation.  If you are looking to use them anally make sure they have some kind of base to them, either a base, or stimulated testicles.  You don’t want to be that person who has to go the emergency room, right?

We have said it above, but it’s worth repeating, don’t double dip with toys.  If you have used any toy anally, make sure you clean it well before putting it anywhere near your vagina. 

Getting a UTI or yeast infection is not worth it!

Vibrating models of toys used for penetration can make them even more versatile, and will allow them to be used both internally and externally for pleasure.

Choosing Your First Dildo

Dildos come in all sorts of shapes, colors, and sizes.

So whether you're trying to find a dildo that'll look like a genuine cock or something a little less phallic, there's bound to be something for you.

And if you are a  size queen there are a variety large body-safe dildos now available, where in the past many of the larger dildos were unsafe jelly dildos or made of latex.

And because a lot of dildos come have a base or testicles, most of them you can use for strap-on play, too. 

Hands Free Dildo Play

Some dildos also come equipped with suction cup bases that make using them totally hands-free.  These can be best for a more feeling natural experience while masturbating (really losing yourself in the moment!) while also being excellent for playing out fantasies of threesomes with a partner.

They likewise sell bases like the TOM V2 and the Love Arc to offer you more choices and angles when it comes to placing and using your suction cup dildos.

However if your favorite dildo does not come equipped with a suction cup, not all is lost there are still options available to you if you want to try mounting your toy.

Most dildos can be used on a wide range of gadgets like the toy mounts from Liberator.

And while the Vac-U-Lock system is what is normally found on sex machines, the majority of the full-size devices have optional universal toy holders that will allow you to attach any dildo with a base to them.

Although being more pricey, another excellent option for a more natural toy experience is using something like the Insert Facilitator Torso to give you dildo and experience a more ‘life-like’ experience (although for some this might be moving in the realm of creepy, but to each their own!)

Custom Dildos

If you are worried about not finding the exact sized and shaped dildo for you, you an always make your own.  There are kits that will allow you to make a replica of your lovers penis, for when you have that special someone who has exactly the right size and shape to hit all your right spots!

Toys For Your G-Spot

Not just will G-spot toys make finding and stimulating the G-Spot much easier, they can be much more comfortable and easier than using your own hand.  Although they may have a larger learning curve than some other toys, they're well worth it for those with the patience to find how to use these toys best on themselves.

Because of their curved heads, these toys aren't used for normal penetration. The prying motions and rhythmical pressure is what they are best at, and turns out it's what G-spots respond best to!

In a way, the more difficult the G-Spot Toy is to initially learn and use, the more intense the G-spot stimulation will be.  You can find G-Spot toys made of many non-traditional materials like stone, wood, glass, and stainless steel.

But if you 'd rather have a G-spot toy that'll still work for penetration, softer products will be much better.  If this is the case for you, you need to check out the economical dual-density Tru Curve along with the NYTC Pack-and-Play toys.

Vibrating G-Spot toys are one of our favorite types of toys when it comes to external stimulation.

The shape of the toys allow you to comfortably hold them like mini wands during clitoral stimulation.

One of the drawbacks of vibrating bullets is that your fingers can go numb when you attempt to hold them for extended amounts of time.  We’ve never found this problem while using a g-spot toy for clitoral stimulation!

If this sounds like something you’d like in a toy, we recommend the Rave by We-vibe for it’s amazing verstality.  We’ve also found that they are good at stimulating a guy’s prostate, but since they don’t have a stopper or base, we recommend that if you are going to use it as a unisex toy that you do so with caution (and clean it in between each partner using it!)

Anal Sex Toys

If you're feeling a bit more adventurous, anal sex toys can be a lot of fun to play with.

You can be used to train yourself to be more comfortable with anal sex but they're also fantastic to use while using another toy for clitoral stimulation or vaginal penetration.

For those who are just starting with anal sex, you might want to purchase a set of butt plugs that have gradual increases in size.  This will allow you to get comfortable with the feeling of having something in your booty, and let you work up to larger sizes. This is especially good if you are looking to have anal sex with a partner.

And if you want to feel a little naughty during the day there are butt plugs that are comfortable and secure enough that you can wear them throughout the day without anyone knowing!  For even more adventurous public play, there are even some models that can be triggered to vibrate by yourself or a partner from smart phone apps.

We recommend the Robo Rimmer, if you are looking for a cordless virbratin toy for anal sensations. The Robo Rimmer vibrates and has a rotating head, along with rotating beads on its base that causes a unique and intense rimming sensation.

If you don’t want to buy a seperate toy just for anal play, any dildo with a base you can use.  Just make sure that you use enough lube to comfortably insert the dildo, and clean it well after using it for anal play.

Double Duty Toys - Toys that Stimulate More Than One Spot

Often referred to as "Rabbits", the toys stimulate internally and externally at the same time.

While this may seem like an appealing idea, they're some of the trickiest sex toys to recommend since it's every woman’s anatomy and preferences are unique.

These are difficult to recommend to someone first off because they come in a number of shapes.  Different women will prefer different lengths and widths, but also some might prefer strong internal vibrations and more subtle ones on their clitoris, vice versa, and the is such a wide variety of rabbit vibrators available that it’s impossible to make a universal recommendation.

So these toys can require a lot of experimentation before you can arrive on the best dual stimulator for your body.  We would recommend that you start out with other toys and learn exactly what you like in those toys, and then look for a rabbit device that meets those criteria!

For the most part, it might be better to use separate toys like a bullet vibe and a dildo/g-spot toy.  But if you don’t want to use two toys, or you’d like to have a hand free to do other things while pleasuring yourself, then a rabbit could be a great choice.

If you wish to avoid buying a lots of toys prior to landing on the right one, they do make a few alternatives work for a wide variety of women like Nova by We-Vibe.

Otherwise, you we recommend having a fair amount of experience with toys and your own body and read a lot of reviews prior to buying any of these sex toys.  

See Our Rabbit Vibrator Reviews and Recommendations

Choosing the Best Sex Toys for Couples

Practically all sex toys work well with couples.  They can be used to add pleasure to you and your partner, or they can be used to spice up the fantasy element of love making. 

For example, Bullet Vibes are really easy to use while having sex because they're small enough to add some extra clitoral stimulation.

But some toys are more geared towards couple play than solo use.  So in this part, we will explore options that make sex with someone else a bit more interesting, might it be in the bed room, in public or even if you are having a long distance relationship!

Sex Toys for Heterosexual Couples

If you're in a relationship with a guy, initially you ought to get acquainted with male toys, specifically when it concerns masturbators and prostate massagers.  They can make fun presents to give to the man in your life, but they are also fun to use together for some extra pleasure, or if you need to take a rest and he is still ready to go.

Cock rings can help him maintain thicker, fuller and longer erections during sex.  Even if he has no problem performing a cock ring can make his erections even more satisfying, especially if you prefer harder men to the squishy feel.

Vibrating cock rings can also give some additional stimulation on the clitoris and the shaft of his penis. Our favorite choices for that purpose are the low-cost Charged Cock Rings by Screaming-O in or the more expensive but more powerful Atom & Atom Plus by Hot Octopuss.

Wireless Sex Toys for Couples

Wireless sex toys can also be a lot of fun to play with.  They can be used for one on one play at home, at longer distances like when your partner is out shopping or at work, or for long distance relationships.  It can add a level of fun and mischievousness to a relationship, and even a feeling of intimacy to a cross country relationship.

The most popular option being the We-Vibe Sync, a very versatile toy for couples that can be used during sex for some extra sensation on the clit, g-spot, or your partners penis.  Given that it hugs the clitoris and G-spot, it's also a ton of fun to wear outside of your home for some discreet public play.

If you're in a far away relationship, there's also been some significant enhancements in tele-dildonics, making it possible to have stimulated penetrative sex, even when you are not with your partner.  Our favorite option for this is using the Kiiroo dildos along with a Fleshlight Launch. This will allow you to take the motions of your dildo and send them to his Fleshlight Launch, replicating every movement of your dildo to stimulation on his penis.

You're not limited to anal or vaginal penetration either because you can even replicate blow jobs and hand jobs with this device.

And if you 'd rather have the male in control of the motions, you might also invest in the Shockspot along with a Fleshlight with the V-Stroker attachment.  It’s an option that is a lot more expensive, but if you want him to be in control it’s one of the only ways for this to happen remotely right now.

Otherwise, the Cowgirl, a modernization of the Sybian, can also be controlled from any distance.

However this can only be controlled by an app, and not from the movements of another toy, so the effect will be different, although still a lot of fun and pleasurable.

Getting a Little Less Vanilla - Beginner BDSM for Couples

For those with a taste of whips and chains and/ or getting a little rough or tied up there's no shortage of great things in that department either.

Lately, Restraints & Impact Toys have become more commonplace among couples (Thanks 50 Shades!)  So even if you just like to occasionally dabble in kinkier side of sex and don’t want to dive into the whole BDSM lifestyle there are lots of options for you!

Sex furniture is an excellent option to bring things to the next level and add more variety to the positions you can have sex in a little easier.

Liberator makes some great accessories like waterproof throes and wedges that will keep your bed linen tidy while supplying better angles for penetration and G-spot (or prostate) stimulation.

But if you're ready to invest a little bit more, there's almost no limit to what can be done from the convenience of your own home.

If your man enjoys anal stimulation, there's no scarcity of choices for you either. There are some great hands-free prostate toys that he could wear throughout sex. And if he's into it, high quality pegging gear will give you both many pleasurable nights.

It's likewise not unusual for couples to enjoy threesome fantasies without necessarily wishing to invite another person over. If it is the case for you, all the toy holders and the suction cup dildos described in the dildo area are good options. There are also holders for masturbators available too in case you get off on seeing your guy pleasuring himself!

Sex machines, sex dolls, and torsos are also all terrific alternatives for that purpose.

A Guide To Toys For Lesbian Couples

Things are a little simpler for lesbians given that all the toys talked about in this list are fantastic alternatives for both of you.

But if you 'd rather keep your hands totally free for more crucial things, you ought to take a look at some hands-free sex toys also.

Also, prior to using the same toy on each other, it's very important that you completely sanitize them by either boiling them or applying a 10% bleach water solution over them followed by a good rinse.

Naturally, this will only deal with non-porous products like Silicon, Glass, and Stainless-Steel.

And if you both know that you are clean of any STD’s then this step can usually be safely skipped, unless any anal play is involved, and then we would recommend cleaning your toys well.

Of course, strap-ons and double dildos are also popular options for those who enjoy some penetration.

There are also double ended dildos for women who would rather experience more clitoral stimulation rather than just penetration.

And if you are looking for a strap-on we recommend the Sili Saddle. It’s a high quality harness, but it also has a little bit of extra padding that will safeguard your mons during particularly energetic play.

If you're looking for some strap-on compatible dildos, nearly all of the toys in our dildo lists will work. All you need is an excellent base and the ideal size of O-Rings.

Sex furniture will also make some angles simpler and more comfortable to deal with while raising the hips in such a way that'll better target the G-spot.

And, in our lesbian couples toys guide, we also describe some good wireless toys that are fun to use outside of your home, in the bedroom and even across long distances. They're can also be used under a strap-on for some extra stimulation for the top, and allow the bottom to control the vibrations to make the experience a little less one-sided.

Conclusion - Choosing the Right Sex Toy Should be Fun

We hope that you have found our guide helpful.  If you are looking for more detailed information we have other guides that go much more in depth for particular types of toys and more recommendations.  Now go and add more pleasure to your life!